Salaam Alaikum Dear Brothers and Sisters:
An old Sufi tradition advises us to speak only after our words have managed to pass through four gates. At the first gate, we ask ourselves, "Are these words true?" If so, we let them pass on; if not, back they go. At the second gate we ask; "Are they necessary?" At the third gate we ask; "Are they beneficial?" and at the fourth gate, we ask, "Are they kind?" If the answer to any of these is no, then what you are about to say should be left unsaid.

Ya Haqq,

Irving

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mashallah that was a nice small gem to read please give us more of its like please.

Allah best

Muhammad Sajad Ali

The highest word is I don't know.
Try to deliver sometings truely you don't know is defamation.

Truely from God.

Insya ALLAH
ALLAH is The Greatest.

jazakAllahu khayran for the beautiful reminder. I hope you dont mind me sharing it in another forum.