Assalam alaikum,

I am software engineer and by grace of almighty i earn sufficiently. I and my family(Parents) have deep love and affection towards sufism and silsile.
My parents have links with very pious and sufis related family. They want to keep status(prestige) and also want to develop contacts with higher status, themselves and also for me.

But, I like one girl and she does like me too. But, i knew i will get no answer for my like. And i cant talk to my parents about me. Bcoz of respect and its marriage topic. i cant explain in detail how much i like her.
Also, she is from little low financial family, but very pious and offers 5 times prayer etc.. I am confused very much. I cant talk rude to anyone and need some help, guide to waht to do ..Please help me as i dotn want to hurt my parents and at same time i cant betray the girl.
Her family has no problem for me. They are ready.

I am very strong beleiver of sunni tariqat, I may be bad guy, but i dont do much wrong (Allah Qhair).

Please help, i dont understand any thing..

salaams well first of all which country are you in ! this past week i've had phone calls from people with the same problems!

also last week someone came to my house a white (non-muslims) brother who wanted to marriage a Pakistani sister he took Shadaha ie. he became Muslim in my House and then the shaykh married them off !

so getting back to your problem were are you based areyou in the UK or not ..?


Sajad

askm,

No, I am not from UK. I am from south india and in this case we are of same muslim(sunni). Pls help me..

thks allahhafiz
siddique