ADAB OF THE MUREED
By: Hajj Mustafa Ali

Foreword by Shaykh Fadhlalla Haeri

The path of Islam contains all answers needed, as one journeys in this physical world as well as the answers and guidance that emanates from the unseen. Human beings have the capacity of witnessing and correcting themselves as declared in the Qur`an.

The higher self within us is the closest to the divine light, which has gifted us the Ruh. In order to get that higher reflection we need the prophetic light and conduct as the ultimate reference point. At a practical level we need to refer to the must illuminated awakened human being close to us.

It is in this matter that we need to follow a living teacher or guide. The danger of being misled by the lower self and Shaytan is ever present. It is for this that we need a trusted and reliable reflection. Therefore the relationship between the teacher and the follower is an intimate one, based on unconditional love and service to Allah.

A truly courteous mureed is indeed courteous to himself and the job of the teacher is to ensure that this courtesy is to the higher self.

Hopefully this booklet will touch the hearts and the conduct for we are both intention and action.

Allah is the only One

Introduction

All of creation is set in a balance that reflects the ultimate harmony of all things, Allah, The-Majestic, The-Wise.

Everything is connected and each and every one is an actor in a play that has been designed with specific parameters and codes of behaviour.

Each thing, from the atoms to the planets to the greater universe around us, is subject to laws that maintain harmony and apparent stability.

We, the human creature are subject to these laws.

This little booklet is intended to share with others some practical points of courtesy with those fortunate to have the company of an enlightened being.

The Shaykh, teacher or guide can only be useful if there is correct adab. Without it, there can be no transmission. Transmission is the way that light and knowledge is communicated from one heart to another. Without it, it remains so much information and sentimentality.

Each point of courtesy mentioned in this booklet is a doorway to your own evolvement, and being-ness.

The recommendation in this book is not sacrosanct, and varies from Shaykh to Shaykh in their ultimate expression, but the meanings are the same.

I offer this little booklet as a sincere prayer that may help not only mureed's of Shaykh Fadhlalla Haeri, but also all who venture on the path of "will-full" submission.

Wa Salaam

Hajj Mustafa Ali al-Taqi al-Haydari
White River, Republic of South Africa

1998


Adab of the Mureed
The Path is nothing but Adab; courtesy.

There is an adab due to everything in creation. There is an adab due to your brothers on the path. There is an adab due to the Shaykh. The entire matter is the adab due to yourself.

The first is arrived at by following in the footsteps of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW), his family, the awliya ‘ullah, and those who represent them.

The second is that you honour your brothers and sisters on the path. You avoid seeing their faults by recognising them first in yourself. You cover their faults in public and private. You see them as mirrors reflecting to you meanings regarding yourself. You must prefer what you have for your brother to yourself. Their mistakes are better than the right actions of others, in that they act with pure intentions; learn from their mistakes and move on the path, having gained understanding and wisdom from their actions. If they should make an error they return their actions to Allah in ‘istighfar’, seeking His covering them from their consequences.

The adab to the Shaykh is service, waiting, patience, listening and wanting what your Shaykh wants, as if it were your wanting.

Lastly the entire matter is adab to yourself.

We have been brought into this life for one purpose that is to know our creator. Allah says in a hadith Qudsi ‘I was a hidden treasure wanting to be known, so I manifested creation so as to be known’.

The entire purpose of this life’s experience is self-knowledge. Knowledge of the self leads to the knowledge of the source of the self.

The Prophet Muhammad says: “He who knows himself, knows his lord”.

Allah has designed within us the ability of cognition. It is this ability of self-awareness that separates us from the animals and all other forms of creation. With this ‘gift’ of cognition and self awareness, comes the ability to choose at any given moment courses of action that present themselves in situations as we inter-relate with creation. Written in each of these instances are possibilities to either be drawn closer to realization or knowledge of the self or its opposite.

These possibilities have not been left to chance. Allah has manifested clear guidance through the revelations and enlightened behaviour of the Prophets and their inheritors. They represent the measure by which one aspires to attain the highest potential and fulfilment of the divine purpose.

Allah says in the Qur`an: "I have raised a Prophet from amongst yourselves”

He, the Prophet is “one of us”. His light and final advent was designed and intended before the creation came into being. His appearance historically, and his presence amongst us is this pre-creational intention become manifest. His light has always been present in the human gene pool and arose at the appointed time. His Prophetic light and being ness is our true nature. In following his example we are raised to our highest potential. We can never achieve his station. What we can achieve is our highest through the following of his behaviour and realizing its inherent meaning.

Guidance is none other than behaving in a manner consistent with the Prophetic behaviour, and through adherence to that mould, evolve out of the cocoon of darkness and ignorance, into the light of true self-realization.

This can only be achieved by the practice of “will-full” submission to the path. And this is the beginning of adab to yourself.

Adab to yourself is to submit to what Allah has intended for you and not what is dictated by the habits of the self and their inclinations to follow the whispering of the Shaytan.

The only way to accomplish this task is to take the company of a living Shaykh who can help you discriminate between what is from Allah’s ‘hiddyat’ and your lower self, reacting to the impulses of Shaytanic influence. It is through the Shaykh’s guidance and the company of a practising community that saves your languishing in self-involvement and transforms you into the divinely intended purpose. Understanding and submitting to this, is the adab to yourself.

Allah says in the Qur`an: "Those will prosper who purify themselves". (87:14)

Also: "What good befalls you is from Allah, and whatever evil befalls you is from yourself’." (4:79)

Your entire relationship with creation, your brothers and sisters, your Shaykh is all for this purpose. It is in this realization and will-full practice, that lays the foundation of adab to yourself.

Allah says in the Qur`an: "I did not create Jinn or Man, but to worship Me."

Shaykh Fadhlalla Haeri says:

"You have to be present all the time, visibly, physically, mentally. If you are not, rectify it. You must catch yourself instantly. Do not delay. If you delay you will become fossilised and it will be more difficult. It is all about being available to any situation as a full-grown human being, with faith and good opinion and optimism, with inner realization that you have come from that total ocean of infinity and to that ocean of infinity you are returning. In between is a tiny little flicker!"

Adab to the Shaykh
Shaykh Muhammad ibn al-Habib said:

“It is obligatory on every mureed who seeks the presence of Allah to take the living Shaykh. The proof of this obligation is in the words, may he be exalted, “Oh trusting-ones, fear Allah, and be with the truthful ones.”

Mureed is derived from irada (will) and it depends on sincerity (ikhlas). The true meaning of mureed is one who has stripped himself of his own will and accepted what Allah wills for him.

Ibn ‘Ata-Allah, may Allah be pleased with him, says in his “Hikam’

“Do not accompany one whose state does not change you and whose speech does not guide you to Allah.”

Until one has met a living and teaching Shaykh there can only be glimpses of the Unitive reality in creational experience. Realization of the Unitive reality can only be focused and reflected wholesomely through the exposure to one who is fully realised, and is himself a clear and pure reflector of divine unity.

A great Shaykh and arif once said:

“Once you have met your Shaykh you have come to the complete meaning of your life. After this meeting there can only be further unveilings and openings to one’s reality, or may Allah protect us, a covering up of the opportunity and a plunge into darkness.”

"Mankind was created neither in vain nor by chance: Does man suppose he will be left in futility?" (75:36)

The Shaykh is your inner reality, manifested in experience, as a mirror reflecting to your heart it’s own true nature.

The Shaykh is your door to the Prophetic being-ness. He is like a tuning fork or resonant cords: when the sound is picked up by another instrument it resonates the same tone.

In order for this resonance or alchemical transformation to take place, love is required. Without love there is no hope in achieving any illumination. Love is the connective tissue or medium that allows the transmission from the Shaykh to the mureed to take place. Love transcends the intellect, yet does not discount it. It breaks all barriers so that the divine light can flow. It is love of the Shaykh that transports the mureed to love of the Prophet, and finally annihilates the mureed in the ultimate divine love. The completion of this unveiling of love is called ‘ma’arifat’, or illumination of the heart of its divine nature.
Allah says in a hadith Qudsi: ‘My slave draws near to me in worship; when he loves me, I love him. Than I become the hand by which he grasps and the eye by which he sees.

The Ruby by Rumi

At breakfast tea a beloved asked her lover,
"Who do you love more, yourself or me?"


"From my head to my foot I have become you.
Nothing remains of me but my name.
You have your wish. Only you exist.
I've disappeared like a drop of vinegar
in the ocean of honey."


A stone has become a ruby,
is filled with the qualities of the sun.
And if it loves the sun, it loves itself.
There is no difference between these two loves.
Before the stone becomes the ruby it is its own enemy.
Not one but two exist.
the stone is dark and blind to daylight.
If it says "I," it is all darkness.
A pharaoh claims divinity and is brought down.
Hallaj says the same and is saved.
One I is cursed, another I is blessed.
One I is a stone, another a crystal.
One an enemy of the light, the other a reflector of it.
In its inmost consciousness, not through a doctrine,
it is one with the light.
Work on your stony qualities
and become resplendent like the ruby.
Practice self-denial and accept difficulty.
Always see infinite life in letting the self die.
Your stoniness will decrease; your ruby nature will grow.
The signs of self-existence will leave your body,
and ecstasy will take you over.

Become all hearing like an ear and gain a ruby earring.
Dig a well in the earth of this body,
or even before the well is dug,
let Allah draw the water up.


Be always at work scraping the dirt from the well.
To everyone who suffers,
perseverance brings good fortune.
The Prophet has said that each prostration of prayer
is a knock on heaven's door.
When anyone continues to knock,
felicity shows its smiling face.

Main Attributes of a Shaykh
A true Shaykh is that he appears with an outward light and an inward secret. He elevates you with a glance and secrets flow into the heart of the mureed. He is a ‘zahid’ in the world; he is unique in comparison to others and speaks by permission of the Prophet himself.

His company reveals your hidden faults and heals you simultaneously with a spiritual healing. He is gentle to the wayfarer and has compassion for those in trouble. He calls you to Abandon yourself in Allah’s remembrance, and inspires your heart through the Qur’an, in his revealing its inner meanings.

“Surely on Allah’s friends there is no fear, nor do they grieve.” (110:62)

Some Guidelines in Keeping Company with the Shaykh

It is best in the company of the Shaykh to speak little and listen a great deal.

Only concern yourself with what concerns you and disregard the rest. Always take what comes to you from his company and be satisfied. It is your provision for the moment.

If the Shaykh has rebuked you or he has pointed out aspects of your self-form, do not fall into emotionality regarding the issue. Always remember the point of keeping company with the Shaykh and his companions is to discover and uncover the ground of yourself, so that its exposure to the light may bring about a transformation. Always remember that Allah is always on a new creation each day, each moment. You do not have to be the same person you were a day ago, or a moment ago. Accept yourself and its faults and move ahead in joy that it was exposed.

If the Shaykh or his companions should be misinformed about something concerning you, be sure that Allah knows the truth and He will defend you. Allah will inform the Shaykh of the truth in the matter. Always be aware that it is the acceptance of Allah that you seek not His creation, although if you hold to these things you will have both.

If the Shaykh gives you a special practice to do, i.e. a dhikr invocation to recite, act on it immediately. Keep in mind that when Allah inspires a thing in the heart of the Shaykh for a wayfarer on the path, all the angels and unseen forces align with his will and empower that instruction with Baraka (blessing). If you do not act on it, that Baraka may leave it and you will not sow the complete benefit of the instruction.

If you have a question or information for the Shaykh, wait until there is an appropriate moment to request his attention. Avoid going after the Shaykh when he has already got up from sitting and is leaving towards his abode.
Do not trouble the Shaykh with worldly matters. Matters of the world only obstruct the potential relationship between you and the Shaykh. Keep them to a minimum. The Shaykh is not above these discussions. He is a householder and experiences the world, like we do. The difference is that he sees the hand of Allah in a matter before it, in it, and after it. It is his state of witnessing that differentiates your state to his.

Avoid calling the Shaykh on the phone. If you need to ask the Shaykh a question, make sure it is a real one and not academic. The Shaykh would rather have the mureed in front of him, at an appropriate time. Use your common sense at all times. If there is an emergency take whatever action is needed.

When writing to the Shaykh, avoid long letters. Be concise and specific in you request. In any case seeking the Shaykh’s counsel, ensure that you have investigated the matter yourself thoroughly and taken counsel with your brothers first.

Do not go to the Shaykh’s house without his direct permission. Never come to his house after Maghrib unless you were requested to do so.

Never sit with your feet pointing directly at the Shaykh. If you have to stretch your legs, then put them behind you. If this does not relieve the discomfort than its is better to get up and stretch out by walking around and then return to your seat. If you have constant discomfort of this nature when visiting the Shaykh, bring a cloth or Abah' to cover your feet.

When in the company of the Shaykh and his companions, be aware that you do not become overly ‘familiar’ with them. You are in the company of real men, aspiring to imbibe their qualities. Sit straight and attentively. Do not lapse into familiarity by joking or leaning your body back on pillows. Be alert, or you will miss everything.

Familiarity breed’s contempt; watch out for it.

Never take instructions from another Shaykh or Murshid unless you have been directed by your Shaykh to do so. You may sit with other Shayukh, take their Baraka and wisdom, but not their instruction. This is a precaution to avoid confusion. Each Shaykh has their own ‘taste’ and approach. It is like being under the care of a doctor who practices homeopathy. You are taking his prescription of homeopathic remedies. You meet another doctor who is a herbalist. He sees your condition and prescribes peppermint. The peppermint voids the homeopathic treatment, and as a result you become more ill and confused as to where to turn to for help.

Do not expect all Shayukh to refrain from instruction, even though they may be aware of your being under the guidance of another. They are often overwhelmed by their perceptions and offer instructions. It is from their overflowing-ness. Allah knows the truth of it.
In any case always seek counsel from your Shaykh in any matter.

Your relationship to him is like the moon to the sun. You are dark and without light. You move around the earth through phases, sometimes waning and sometimes waxing. The sun has been alight with nur (light) that has burst from a heart untethered by creation and set free to reflect the divine presence. It does not wane or wax, but remains steady in its divine course. Reflect the light of the sun, take in its warmth and allow it to bring you to fullness. Once you have tasted this light it becomes your own, and you will be on your way to becoming a sun in your own right.

Rules in Attending a Circle of Dhikr
When attending a circle of dhikr where the Shaykh is present one must observe the following guidelines:

It is recommend that you arrive at the gathering several minutes early. Avoid being late.

Always sit properly around the Shaykh by forming a complete circle with others. If someone should leave the circle, close the space, leaving no gap, until either they return or another takes their place. Never leave a space between you and another attending the gathering. If the number of people is great and the room is short of space, create circles one within the other. Do not walk across the middle if you have to leave the circle, rather if you have to move, go around the outside if the circle. Always be aware if others entering the gathering make room for those who arrive so as to incorporate them into the circle.

You must be in wudu while attending a halaqa of dhikr, or at anytime you may be in the presence of the Shaykh.

The mureed must be dignified and reflect nobility. Always attend a halaka dhikr with the appropriate attire. Wear a robe or long shirt and a kufi/turban. The clothes must be clean, without the smell of body odour. Wearing socks is preferable. Perfume is highly recommended, but avoid synthetic perfumes. Wear a tasbih around your neck if you should have one.

Sit with your attention focused on the meanings of the tasbih that is being recited.

Centre your awareness in the area of your heart.

When you are centred, glance at the Shaykh in an attempt to taste his state. Go with him in his inward journeying and ride his himma as your mount to elevating yourself. This can also be attempted with your eyes closed, by focusing on the heart and bringing the presence of the Shaykh into it.

Look for his glance, without being obvious; be subtle in its seeking, when it meets you, take it in and with openness taste what ever is being offered. It may be sweet, a taste of the inner fountain of joy, or it may be bitter, a reflective look at what is hidden in your heart. Whatever it is, bitter or sweet, see it as a gift and make use of it on your path of self-knowledge.

Listen to the Shaykh’s voice at all times, harmonise yourself with it. Be alert to him changing the type of dhikr being done. Stop when he stops. Do not sing or recite louder than the Shaykh. This is also true with whoever is leading the dhikr. If you arrive late and the hadra has already begun do not interrupt the circle, rather sit by the side.

If you are unable to sit still, legs folded, and back straight, do not sit in front or near the Shaykh. It is most important that those who can sit still and be focused surround the Shaykh. It is better for him and you that you remain in the back. If you find yourself in the front, near the Shaykh, then you should have a cloth or Abah' (cloak) to cover your legs and feet if you should need to stretch them.

Gatherings of dhikr are not a spectator’s sport: participate in the dhikr fully. If it is diwan, sing it. If you cannot then at least sing the refrain. Every serious mureed should have their own copy of the Diwan. If they are not available then borrow one and copy it out by hand. If it is tasbih than chant aloud. If you cannot participate in this way, than either go to the back, or refrain from attending such gatherings.

While in the presence of the Shaykh keep your tasbih on your neck or in your pocket. Do not handle it while with him. Your doing dhikr with your tasbih in the presence of the Shaykh is a distraction from his presence. It will veil you from the “real” benefit of the moment.

If there is food being served after a gathering, begin eating when the Shaykh begins and finish when he finishes.

Always be concerned that your brothers partake equally of the food placed before you. If you are cooking, avoid hot and spicy foods when serving the Shaykh. Evening meals should be light with plenty of vegetables and fresh salad. In any case prior to a dhikr no food should be taken.

At a gathering of dhikr or at any gathering service is of the highest priority. When food is being served, fuqara should compete with each other in its serving. It is an opportunity to receive a great benefit and should be acted upon with the most serious intention. The youngest fuqara’ should serve first, laying the tablecloths and bringing the food. The server should not sit down until everyone has been served. He should then wait again before sitting down, making sure that everyone is well taken care of. Always serve beginning on the right. This is also true when dispensing rosewater or perfume. A faqir should never wait to be asked to serve. Do not think for a moment that the ones you are serving need your service, especially the older fuqara. It is their generosity towards you that they allow themselves to be served, giving you the opportunity to benefit.

Never bring children to a circle of dhikr. It is beyond their capacity to grasp the experience and it is a lack of courtesy towards them. Furthermore their presence at the dhikr reduces others to their level and obstructs the full benefit desired.

Allah say in the Qur`an: "Whoever hopes to meet his Lord should do good deeds and worship none but his Lord” (18:110)

After the gathering of dhikr is concluded it is important to contain its results. Do not slip into idle conversations, laughter and worldly concerns. The dhikr has an accumulative effect. It is like pouring wine into a jug. If the jug is whole it will contain the wine and it will mature; if it is cracked the wine will seep out and what remains will become bad.

If the Shaykh remains in the place where the dhikr has been held, it is recommended that the mureed remain until the Shaykh either removes himself or he indicates the end of the gathering by his recitation of Surat ul Fatiha, or gives other clear indications of its termination.

If you are sitting in the same circle with the Shaykh, be aware of him at all times. It is permissible to carry on conversations with those around you at appropriate moments, but be aware of yourself. Do not allow your voice to be heard over the Shaykh’s voice. You should be so keenly focused on the Shaykh’s position that if he should address you, you would be instantly available.

Some Points Regarding the presence of Women at Dhikrs.
Men and women should sit in separate circles.

Women should only serve women and visa versa.

Women’s attire at gatherings should be modest, with hair covered. First time female visitors should be encouraged to wear hair coverings.

Visiting women should always have one of the female mureeds look after them,
all through their visit.

Women can attend dhikrs while menstruating, as long as the venue is not in a mosque.

It is important for visitors to realise that attendance of the dhikr will not be to their benefit if their child or children are in need of them. Tending to your children is dhikr itself, so never be under the illusion that you are missing out on something by tending to them first. “Wherever you turn, there is the face of Allah.”

About the “Dhikr”
The Dhikr is made up of three of the following stages:

Dhikr

Fikr

Himma


1. Dhikr

Dhikr has three degrees. The first is Dhikr by the tongue, than Dhikr of the heart and lastly, Dhikr by the ‘sirr’, the secret of being-ness.

We all begin with the Dhikr of the tongue, and it is represented by Huwa (He) the Arabic pronoun of absence. It is the state of the common people. For the wayfarer, it is only the first stage in his remembrance of Allah.

The second stage in represented by Anta (You) the pronoun of presence. Here the mudhakkir contemplates the presence of Allah, His Lordship and his heart and mind is scintillating in its realization.

The third is represented by ‘Ana’ (I) the pronoun of Tawhid. Here the mudhakkir is no longer ‘doing’ dhikr but the dhikr has become him. He is no longer in the illusion of separation from the divine.

Shaykh Fadhlalla Haeri says: ‘Any (other) awareness during remembrance of Allah is a hindrance to entering into the realm of pure consciousness. Pure consciousness cannot be talked about. It must be experienced. It is the state of being-ness.’

Shaykh al-Fayturi says: ‘What a wonderful thing! There you were looking for the dhikr! And there was the dhikr looking for you!’

Ibn ‘Ata-Allah, may Allah be pleased with him, says in his “Hikam”:

‘Do not abandon the dhikr because you fail to sense the Presence of Allah in it. Your forgetfulness of the dhikr of Him is worse than your forgetfulness in the dhikr of Him. Perhaps He will take you from a dhikr of forgetfulness to one with attention and from one with attention to one with Presence and from one with Presence to one in which everything but the Invoked is absent. And that is not difficult for Allah.’

2. Fikr

All creational forms are manifest with purpose and contain intentional meanings designed to reflect to the human being aspects of themselves.

Allah says in the Qur`an: "There are signs on the horizon and in the themselves."

We have been created to know Allah, the Reality. The path to His knowledge is through the experience of life as it has been designed to optimise our journey to His realization. The creation is nothing other than a reflection of ourselves. It is like, when a powerful light is focused on a diamond, the light refracts outward through the facets of the stone, displaying unique patterns. We are like that diamond, each one of us unique and cut to the nature of the stone itself. The light is the source of our consciences. It is one light, yet we experience its reflection in multiplicity.

The purpose of reflection is to transcend multiplicity and witness Allah’s unity in the creation.

‘Allah says in the Qur`an: “Look out in the creation you will see no fault in it, your eye sight will return back tired in trying to see and fault in it”.

The first step to this realization is to come to know that you are the center of the universe; that all experience, no matter how great or small, is within you. You are the book that must be read, each moment of experience is another word, sign and sentence, containing a meaning designed and directed at you, so as to bring you to realization and intimacy with the Creator of all. Make no mistake about it, you are the world. In order to reap the optimum benefit from this experience reflection is required. The depth and clarity of that reflection depends upon the purity of heart. If the heart is full of yourself, expectation of the future, regret for the past, fear and false hope, then the world will meet you with a reflection of what your heart contains. If the heart is without all this mentioned above than it has nothing other than the divine presence.

Allah says in a hadith Qudsi: ‘The whole universe cannot contain me, but the heart of the one with Iman contains Me.’

As Shaykh Abdal Qadi al-Jilani says:

‘The world is a market place which will soon be closed. Close the door through which you see the creation and open the door through which you can view the Truth, the Most Glorious and Mighty. Close the door to earning and seeking provision from transactions, which apply only to you, while you are in a pure hearted state and close to the innermost secret. However, do not close that door on those transactions, which include others, such as your family and those that depend upon you. Let the benefit of that which you have obtained through your labour be for others. Seek that which concerns you from the banquet of His Grace. Leave your nafs with the world, your heart with the Hereafter and your innermost secret with the Master'

3. Himma

Shaykh Muhammad Ibn al-Habib says in his Diwan:

‘Whoever has got dhikr, fikr and himma will in each moment rise above otherness. He will attain gnosis beyond his desire and fast realise the secrets if existence.’

Himma is born of knowledge and direct tasting of the benefits of dhikr and inspiration from the words of the Shaykh. It is like after tasting a most delicious drink you develop a taste for it and will search the bazaar until you have more and more of it and you are annihilated in it. Himma is pure energy and without it there is no achievable benefit.

Some Other Points on Dhikr
In a typical session of dhikr the stages are as follows:

In the first stage the Diwan is being recited. It contains instruction regarding the wayfarer’s journeying on the path. In this stage the mureed’s state is raised by the meaning contained within the Diwan, turning his awareness away from worldly concerns. He is filled with longing to have direct experience of the meanings contained within the Diwan, and is now ready to move on to the next stage of the dhikr.

The second stage is the Hadra (Divine Presence). This can be in a sitting or standing position. It contains the repetitive recitation of divine attributes. At this stage the mureed is emptying his heart and purifying it with the Divine Presence. When the heart is purified it reflects the attributes being recited. When this is done the heart is emptied of all, other it now contains the meaning of the divine attributes being recited. The mureed is now empty of himself and ready to receive his portion of the divine succour from Allah.

At the end of the Hadra the mureeds are quickly seated, remaining still, poised to receiving the Shaykh’s divinely inspired dars (teaching). This is the third and most intoxicating stage of the halaqa. Here the Shaykh inspires the hearts of the mureed’s with words containing the transmission of his divinely inspired state. The mureed’s himma is elevated and he takes away from this last stage a provision, for his journeying further on his path of illumination.

Recommended Wazifah for Mureeds
This Dhikr is to be done after every salat.

The formula below encompasses the entire panoramic path to Allah, in an ascending arch to His Presence.

Astaghfiru'ullah x 40
Ma sha Allah x 40
Subhan Allah x 40
Allah x 100

Beginning with Astaghfirullah (in repetition) one turns to Allah, seeking covering from the results of wrong actions. We repeat this formula visualising our shortcomings.

We open ourselves to Allah’s divine mercy. We seek His covering us directly from Himself.

We see our insignificance in the face of His awesome beingness and empty ourselves of vanity and recognize our inability to affect anything.

We beg Allah to wipe our balance clean and to come to Him without any need for reckoning our wronging others or ourselves

The second is Ma sha Allah! All is from Allah, in Allah, and to Allah! In this stage of the dhikr we look out with the hearts eye at all creation and will fully submit to Allah’s total lordship over all. Our own ability to seek Him is from Him. As the Shaykh says:

Oh Noble and Generous Lord,
You created these servants of Yours
And brought them into being
Out of a drop of fluid.
We dare not presume to love You,
And we could not have loved You,
If you had not loved us.
Had You not remembered us.
We could not have remembered You.

Just as our loving You
Is due to Your loving us,
Our remembering you
Is surely due to You remembering us,
And to Your Divine Help.

We abandon any claim of power or determination. We implode ourselves in His presence and escape from the labour of self-affirmation.

Next is Subhan Allah! After handing all over to His divine Majesty and Power, one can only look out at all things with humility and awesome appreciation of witnessing the splendour of. Allah’s creation. All the discernible intricate patterns of life, one upon the other in a masterful web reflecting the divine unity. You are inwardly intoxicated by the vision and at the same time held in place by the order of His decrees.

Allah; It is self-explanatory.


Dhikr After Salat
As’staghfirullah al'lathee la ila ha ila hu, ar Rahman ar Raheem,
al Hayyal Qayyum wa 'atubu ilay. (5 times)

I seek covering from Allah, from the results of my wrong actions. There is no God but Him, the all-Merciful the all-Compassionate, the ever living the eternal. I turn to you.

Allahu Akbar (34 times)
Allah’s greatness in not quantifiable and beyond any conception.

Alhamdu lillah (33 times)
Praise belongs to Allah.

Subhan Allah (33 times)
Glory is Allah’s. All is swimming in His never-ending attention.

Ayat al Kursi (Once)

Salat nabuwi (3 times)

Allahuma salli ala Muhammadin wa ali Muhammad (3 times)

Peace, blessings and connection upon Muhammad and his family.

Sajdat al Shukr (Once)

Prostration of Gratitude.

All the above can be performed after each salat period. After Fajr and Maghrib add the following:

In the Sajdat ul Shukr, while still in prostration, lift your head slightly and place your thumb and middle finger on your forehead. Your fingers should be on both sides of the head in the place where if you had horns they would emerge from there. Then recite the last ayat of Surat ul Hashir.

This was given to us by the late Shaykh Osman Beshir Osman (R.A.). Whoever perseveres in this practice at fajr and maghrib, they will be spared death from a serious illness.
Adab between the Fuqara

Do not look for faults in each other, there is no end to it, so don’t to it.

Our Prophet says: “Whoever covers the faults of his brother, Allah will cover him from his own faults on the day of judgement”

He also says: “If you start seeking faults in the Muslims, you will cause dissent among them or you will at least start dissension.”

On offering and Receiving Advice
When offering advice one must do so humbly, being aware of the feelings and attitude of the one you are trying to consul. Always check your intentions before proceeding.
It is always recommended to recite Surat ul Fatiha before delivering your advice.
In receiving consul, be humble and take what is being handed to you. If it applies immediately acknowledge it and thank the advice giver. If it does not apply then accept the advice and refrain from argument and defending yourself. Allah knows the truth of the matter.

On the Kissing of Hands
The kissing of hands is a way of recognising and honouring your brothers on the path. It is an intimate act that reflects the real connection between the people of the path to
Self-knowledge. The hands are symbolic of the highest of names, Allah, as well as they represent the 99 names of Allah.

When the tip of the forefinger and the tip of the thumb meet they form the divine name. This can easily be observed by holding the hands in that position and looking upon them from their backside. On the inner palm there are two prominent lines that stand out over the other lines on the hands, and form the Arabic symbols for ‘one’ and ‘eight’ or eighteen (1.
When you embrace the right hand of your brother, his hand displaying the opposite number 81. Your hands combine 18 and 81, adding up to 99.

The kissing of the hands is also like the kissing of the black stone in the Ka’ba. It represents the intimate experience of unveiling that takes place between a wayfarer and his ultimate destination. It is the point where the lines of differentiation between the lover and the beloved vanish.

When kissing your brothers hand keep in mind it’s meaning and allow it to become a window for you to peer out into the garden of spiritual delights.

When kissing hands, race to be the first to kiss. Do not “give” your hand to your brother to kiss. You both are offering the hand of Allah to each other. Do not wait until it is kissed first, it’s not yours to offer in the first place. The best greeting is when both hands are kissed simultaneously.

It is permissible to offer your hands to be kissed without reciprocation, to children, your wife, or to younger novices on the path. It is a way of creating respect in them for the path and to those on it. This is not a hard and fast rule, use discretion in any case.

The adab in kissing the hand of your Shaykh is to kiss his hand if he extends it to you and do not expect to have your hand kissed by him. Never pause to wait for him to do so. If he should kiss your hand consider it an honour and receive it with great humility.



Glossary of Terms
Abah'
A cloak, worn on the shoulder, can be used to cover feet.

Adab
Inner courtesy expressing itself as graciousness in right actions.

Astaghfir’ullah
“I seek forgiveness of Allah." Seeking covering from Allah from the results of wrong actions.

Baraka
Purified energy that flows from the presence of an enlightened being. I may also be present at the tombs of saints, or places touched by Allah’s mercy.

Dhikr
Remembering Allah, declaring the unity of Allah, in acting Him in accordance with the Prophet’s behaviour.

Diwan
A collection of teaching songs or odes, designed to inspire the mureeds on their journey to realization.

Fuqara'
The derivation of wayfarers on the path. Fuqara’ is the plural of faqir, meaning ‘poor’. The Wayfarer or salik acknowledges his poverty for he needs Allah whereas Allah is rich beyond compare. We come to know His wealth by our own poverty.

Halaqa
A circle of Dhikr.

Hadith
A tradition of the Prophet Muhammad.

Hadith Qudsi
A saying of Allah spoken on the tongue of the Prophet that is not in the Qur'an.


Hasbi Allah
Allah is enough for me!

Hidayat
Divine Guidance.
Iman
Trust in the ‘real’, having the inner panorama of enlightened perception.

Is’tighfar
Turning to Allah, seeking his covering of your wrong actions.

Kufi
Type of head covering, a hat worn to show reverence and dignity especially in prayer and at gatherings of mureeds.

Ma’ rifa
Knowledge of Allah. Intimacy with the divine.

Maghrib
Sunset prayer.

Ma sha Allah
Allah decreed it. It is as it is, by His command.

Mudhakkir
The one who is in remembrance of Allah.

Mureed
Mureed comes from ‘irada’, (will). The Mureed gives up his will to that of Allah’s.

Qur'an
The book of Allah, revealed through the angel Jibril to the Messenger of Allah, Muhammad (SAW)

Shaykh
In Sufi terms, a realised teacher, able to guide and teach others the science of awakening.


Shaytan
That energy that induces humankind to be distracted and deflected from the path that leads to completeness.

Subhan Allah
Glory is Allah’s. Everything is swimming in the ocean of Allah’s merciful care.

Tasbih
Prayer beads. It also refers to repetitive formulas of divine invocations.

Tawhid
The unity of all things. Oneness.

Zahid
He who does without. A Zahid may have little or much on this world, but it does not affect his submission and total reliance on Allah.

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